grief is not something you can experience if you're hoping for an endpoint: it's everlasting, and eventually, it grows to a deep appreciation of the time and memories. I hope you join that stage soon, for your own heart. As for your beloved best friend, how lucky are you both to have spent 17 beautiful years together? The one thing that helped me as I experienced this a few years ago was from his doctor who said "You are one of the few humans who is making the choices for him, not for you. You are doing the best thing for him." You know your best friend better than anyone: throughout this process, trust him. And, enjoy all the precious moments in between. Fingers crossed you all can combat it <3
grief is not something you can experience if you're hoping for an endpoint: it's everlasting, and eventually, it grows to a deep appreciation of the time and memories. I hope you join that stage soon, for your own heart. As for your beloved best friend, how lucky are you both to have spent 17 beautiful years together? The one thing that helped me as I experienced this a few years ago was from his doctor who said "You are one of the few humans who is making the choices for him, not for you. You are doing the best thing for him." You know your best friend better than anyone: throughout this process, trust him. And, enjoy all the precious moments in between. Fingers crossed you all can combat it <3
Sending ❤️ to you. And all the positive, good vibes ❤️❤️❤️